We have so much to learn from the "older" generation. We have so much to learn from our parents. And Thanksgiving is the perfect holiday to sit down and have a conversation with your "elders" that are making the effort to travel across the nation, or from just around the corner, to join your family in the celebration of Thanksgiving, as well as Hanukkah, this year.
As far as I know there are no more baseball games scheduled for Friday night, November 1, 2013. I have something that I think you might find very interesting to watch on TV instead.
There will be a documentary series premiering on Showtime at 9PM ET titled Time of Death. It will be a documentary series which will track real people as they come face to face with their own mortality.
Choosing to tackle difficult conversations regarding just about any topic seems to get parked on the back burner when people engage in conversations on a daily basis. That certainly appears to be the case when one brings up the topic of death and dying.
If a topic is not deemed "urgent" or necessary" during the normal ebb and flow of our busy packed days and nights, we tend to put it aside, hoping for a better time or a better place to have that difficult chat.
This topic is near and dear to me, tugging at my heartstrings when I think about it.
This is a very personal story I am sharing with you.
My family owned, loved, and cared for a wonderful shingle covered and much weathered summer cottage. It is located on an island and is a place where I spent my summers growing up, molding into, and eventually becoming the person I am today.
This home was my summer haven for over forty years.
What are you more afraid of ? Dementia or death?
Honestly, I had never considered answering this question prior to posing this question to you now.
My mom used to tell me that it must be easy to "lose your mind" because you don't have any idea that you have lost it! Nonnie's correct of course, yet those that have the onset of dementia may not feel the same way.
Let's explore the relationship between Death and Dementia.
A good time to shop for a coffin is before you actually need one. This sounds a bit morbid doesn't it?
But let's compare this scenario to shopping for a new car or a wedding dress or a home.
Honestly, do you get the best deal when you shop last minute? Do you get what you want for a good value?
What comes to mind when you read: "Everybody dies"?
Do you think:
When my mom died, as traumatic an event as it was experiencing her sudden death, I had no regrets.
I must admit that I feel pretty happy, and fortunate, that I can say that.
Mom and I spoke almost every day, or, at a minimum, at least twice a week. Sundays was always a good time for us to catch up on each others comings and goings. We were very connected, except when I was a teenager of course!
Have you ever thought about donating your body, eyes, or tissue when you die? Or other parts of you?
Most likely, you are probably feeling a bit squeemish about this topic. I get it. But it is a topic that deserves our attention and something that is so very important to consider and then act on.
So many factors are involved in considering whether or not you want to donate your body.